If you’ve seen the average dating scene in our cities today, you are probably less than impressed. I’m sure we’re all aware of the sort of losers that slink around and show up just about everywhere in today’s society, even when they’re not welcome. Now imagine the worst of the worst of these failed specimens, and add poverty and a good helping of mental illness to the mix.
The script for a horror movie? No, as of 2022, this is the bulk of the dating pool for online dating. In case you’ve been stuck under a relationship rock, thanks to dating app algo changes and a good helping of capitalism, the online dating scene is now almost entirely made up of guys who can’t cut in in the real world.
We have covered the strange and psychotic world of incels on this site before, so you know just how murderous these monsters can become. We have also written about the blackpill ideology being freely spilled unto the wider internet from deepwebs like 4chan and reddit — making the whole situation even more dire.
The losers you see at the local bar are at least well adjusted enough to go look for partners in real life. In contrast, the incel type dudes who currently look for love online are so far below the mark that they don’t even bother showing up to traditional places where one can find a mate, because they know it’s hopeless. These are the shut-ins who pay what money they have for gaming chairs, anime pillows, and ultra high speed access to disgusting, degrading pornography sites.
And the algos that fuel dating apps are encoded by cis white nerds from this exact demographic. These encoders are paid well, and have their own sexual conflicts of interest at stake, to algorithmically hook losers up with as many girls as possible. Girls thinking they’re being set up with their equals are in fact being matched with creeps who did the dating app equivalent of gaming the YouTube algorithm. Thanks to capitalism, they can even pay money to be “boosted” into your life.
The very same dating algorithms that were once heralded by tech bros as the technology that would end racism and sexism are now just an engine to get low quality males with a credit card laid as much as possible.
Even biology is screaming out: this is wrong! Every girl is equipped with a marvelous defense system capable of efficiently sorting out creeps. First impressions about people speak volumes. If you happen to run into a person who is weird, warning sirens blare in your head. You quickly dismiss the dude and move on to someone normal.
However, when you are talking to people online you have no way of telling what the person you are talking to is like. Without the ability to see him in front of you, to see how he looks from every angle, how he moves and interacts with others, you can not properly judge him. You will never know what sort of person you are talking to until you take the dangerous step of meeting them in real life.
Which, as mentioned, often ends up turning out to be a very bad — sometimes fatal — idea. The digital precursor to the meeting has engendered expectations and entitlement in the loser’s head, and if he is turned away as the creep he is, he could very well explode.
To exacerbate the problematics, guys you talk to online are often aware of how unworthy they are of the girls into which lives they have boosted themselves, and train themselves on darkweb incel forums to become master women manipulators. Not only will they actively hide their shortcomings, they will lie and intentionally mislead you — even go as far as employ powerful technology like Inspect Element and Artificial Intelligence.
Without the proper physical audio and visual cues of a first impression, women are powerless to determine if the person they are talking to is just an average homely type of person or a hardcore pornography addicted incel rapist.
An added benefit to meeting people in real life is that the places you go determine the sort of people you will meet. If you go to expensive clubs in nice parts of town, the people you see have been forced to cross a kind of financial and social barrier to get in. You are drinking filtered dating water, here.
On the internet, you have no way of knowing when you’ve accidentally struck up conversation with a creeper who can’t even afford a basic set of trendy clothes.
Also, because of the wide availability of pornography on the internet, most men online these days are only there to get their rocks off. While you — or God forbid, your child — might become emotionally attached to the guy on the other end of the wire, to them an online person rarely means more than interactive parasexual pornography. You are just being used for the pervert’s masturbatory pleasure while he boasts on incel forums about how much control he exerts over “NPC #2214.”
If you value your life and your mental health, stay away from dating apps altogether and stick with traditional dating methods like friends of friends.
Because this is not at all the future we were promised, and we don’t have to put up with it. Online dating is over.
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