Disability It Happened To Me ParentingI want to keep my disabled son looking like a child for as long as I can It's better if people think my son is younger than his years, because it's so easy to see the special needs and not the person.
It Happened To Me LoveI’m dating a white man, but self-hate is driving me insane What if deep deep down he considers me "one of the good ones," an anomaly in the world of black girls?
It Happened To MeThe dark side of genital beauty standards involves trauma and 911 The nice lady at poison control transferred me to a much less sympathetic 911 operator once she’d established that I had not, in fact, ingested any of the Nair orally.
It Happened To Me Sex work SMHWhite John privilege: why sex work made me hate white men White men who visit sex workers are blind to their privilege and easily become clingy and emotional. It's OK to be misandrist.
It Happened To Me LoveFrom groupie to survivor: I dated a rock star & all I got was punched in the face He is back on the stage playing music while people write about him. As far as I'm concerned, he got out of the mess without any consequences.
Disability It Happened To Me LoveI married an autistic man He wouldn't even look me in the eye, so I packed my bags and left. But then a curious thing happened.
It Happened To Me Sex workSex worker diaries: I was raided and sent to Chicago’s infamous ‘hooker school’ During my 5yo sex worker career, I have experienced work-related fear twice. This is the story of my raid and sentence.
It Happened To Me LoveRape is no different for a sex worker I believe a lot of what helped me deal with my rape and the abuse I suffered was my background in sex work.
Fat It Happened To MeI crushed a little fat girl’s spirit by wearing her enormous clothes I hurt her, most unintentionally -- but more importantly, being fat is hurting her.
It Happened To Me Love SMHInternalized misogyny: my ex used his Xbox to steal all my money—and I still talk to him Everything happens for a reason. Dealing with him has made me the resilient and accomplished person I am today.